Book reviewer Lauren Baker Murray reviews "Piano Girl" for the prestigious Music Educators Journal.
Piano Girl: A Memoir,
By Robin Meloy Goldsby
Backbeat Books, San Francisco
From
her very first job as a restaurant piano player in Nantucket, Robin
Meloy Goldsby seemed destined to entertain from 5-8 p.m., Monday
through Friday, thank you very much and don’t forget to tip your
servers. Piano Girl is a charming collection of episodes from Goldsby’s
life as an entertainer. It’s not really fair to label her as a lounge
musician, although that’s primarily how she supports herself. She also
sings, acts, and dances in a well-known cabaret (and in one incident
must “tastefully” strip), plays one-handed flute, saves a choking
victim from a pancake, almost joins the circus, and tours with Sesame
Street.
There are many laugh-out-loud moments in this book.
Goldsby doesn’t take herself too seriously, and she says that early in
her career she learned to “stop trying to entertain my customers.
Instead, I allow them to entertain me.” (p. 123). This attitude makes
for some excellent story-telling. As a fellow musician, I found that
many of her stories sounded familiar: endless auditions for which you
seem to be overqualified, underqualified, or wearing the wrong color;
showing up for gigs that aren’t quite the way they were described over
the phone and having to “fake it”; and being pigeonholed into a career
you weren’t planning on but can’t afford to get away from.
The
storytelling is not at all self serving. Goldsby briefly mentions
important life events such as boyfriends, deaths of relatives, and
marriage. She does not, however, spend much time on events that don’t
somehow affect her as a musician. She gets sentimental on only one
occasion, the birth of her first child. This section is just a brief
departure from the light and hilarious tone of the book.
The
most enjoyable aspect of this book is Goldsby’s attitude. So many
professional musicians are jaded and feel trapped in their profession.
At no time does Goldsby complain about wages, working conditions
(although there are some choice moments with dry ice and candles that
would make anyone waver), or her general lot in life. She acknowledges
the loneliness and self-doubt that often occur, but she appreciates
what she does, even stating her amazement that people pay her to
perform. Any cynicism that creeps into her life is finally conquered by
a fellow musician: “You never know who might be listening. It might be
someone who really needs the music you play. Maybe the person who needs
it most is you. But that counts, right?” (p.198)
Music Educators Journal
September 2006
Lauren Baker Murray
associate director, School of Music
University of Northern Colorado